The art of raising children,5short storys will help you know your kid better

Psychologists have created ways to help parents uncover their children's secrets,

In a spontaneous, indirect way without explicit questions that scare them, get to know 5 of them and try them, as they may be the key to dealing with your child.

1.- The story of the bird 🐥

 Tell your child about the story of the father bird and the mother bird and their little bird, they sleep in the nest above the tree..and strong winds blow and the nest falls on the ground..the father bird flies to a tree and the mother bird to another tree .. Ask your child: Where did it fly The little bird? ......

 If your child says that the bird flew to his father, then he is related to his father, and if he says that it flew to his mother, it is related to his mother and he sees her as a source of safety, but if he says that the little bird flew to another tree, then this means that the child is confident, independent and feels safe.

2-A story of fear

Tell your child that there is a child who cries greatly and says that he is very afraid .. who is afraid or who is afraid?

 The child's answer will let you know many of his personal fears and the people who frighten him or feel that their presence threatens and bother him.

3-Travel Story✈

Tell him that there is a person who will travel to a very far place and will never return .. Who do you expect this person to be? ..

The child's answer will let you know who the person the child hates and wishes after,

As for if he told you that the one who will travel

He hates himself. ”

Pay attention to his answer. ”

4- The story of the new news

Tell your child that there is a child who returned from school and his mother told him: Come quickly ... I have new news for you! ... and ask your child:

What do you expect this news to be?

The child's answer helps us recognize one of his desires, fears, and expectations.

5- The story of the disturbing dream

Tell your child that there is a child who woke up exhausted and upset and told his mother that he had a bad dream in his sleep, and ask your child:

What do you think the child saw in his dream?

His answer will make you recognize his weaknesses and problems in his relationships with his family members and friends.

Notice:

It is important that you do not suggest the answer to the child or make his complaints about it if it does not suit you.

And do not tell him that you expect another answer from him !!

The purpose of these stories is to identify and deal with the fears and concerns of the child.