The art of raising children,5short storys will help you know your kid better

Psychologists have created ways to help parents uncover their children's secrets,

In a spontaneous, indirect way without explicit questions that scare them, get to know 5 of them and try them, as they may be the key to dealing with your child.

1.- The story of the bird 🐥

 Tell your child about the story of the father bird and the mother bird and their little bird, they sleep in the nest above the tree..and strong winds blow and the nest falls on the ground..the father bird flies to a tree and the mother bird to another tree .. Ask your child: Where did it fly The little bird? ......

 If your child says that the bird flew to his father, then he is related to his father, and if he says that it flew to his mother, it is related to his mother and he sees her as a source of safety, but if he says that the little bird flew to another tree, then this means that the child is confident, independent and feels safe.

2-A story of fear

Tell your child that there is a child who cries greatly and says that he is very afraid .. who is afraid or who is afraid?

 The child's answer will let you know many of his personal fears and the people who frighten him or feel that their presence threatens and bother him.

3-Travel Story✈

Tell him that there is a person who will travel to a very far place and will never return .. Who do you expect this person to be? ..

The child's answer will let you know who the person the child hates and wishes after,

As for if he told you that the one who will travel

He hates himself. ”

Pay attention to his answer. ”

4- The story of the new news

Tell your child that there is a child who returned from school and his mother told him: Come quickly ... I have new news for you! ... and ask your child:

What do you expect this news to be?

The child's answer helps us recognize one of his desires, fears, and expectations.

5- The story of the disturbing dream

Tell your child that there is a child who woke up exhausted and upset and told his mother that he had a bad dream in his sleep, and ask your child:

What do you think the child saw in his dream?

His answer will make you recognize his weaknesses and problems in his relationships with his family members and friends.

Notice:

It is important that you do not suggest the answer to the child or make his complaints about it if it does not suit you.

And do not tell him that you expect another answer from him !!

The purpose of these stories is to identify and deal with the fears and concerns of the child.

Depending on your skin type, here is some natural masks that highlights your beauty

You can apply the following masks according to your skin type, to enjoy clear and beautiful skin.

**If you are confused about your skin type read this artical

(https://generalethings.blogspot.com/2021/04/My%20skin%20type.html?m=1)**

Dry skin:

Avocado and honey are an excellent moisturizer for dry skin. You can mash one half of an avocado with a quarter cup of honey in a deep bowl and apply the mask on your face for 10 ~ 15 minutes and then clean it with cold water.

You can apply it once a week.

Normal skin:

Cucumber Mask ... Mix 1 cucumber with a cup of oatmeal until it becomes a paste and put it on your face for half an hour, then rinse it with cold water

Oily skin:

Mix appropriate amounts of oats and white honey with a lemon squeeze, and apply the mask on your face for 10 minutes and then wash it with cold water only. You can repeat the mask whenever you feel that your skin needs it.

Mixed skin:

Avocado and aloe vera for combination skin ... Mash half an avocado with a tablespoon of aloe vera gel and apply it on your face for 20 minutes and rinse with water after that.

If you prefer any other type of skin masks, you can share it in the comments for the benefit of others

Your skin is normal, mixed, oily or dry ?Are you confused about your skin type?

Are you confused about your skin type?

You can do a simple experiment at home to determine your skin type, as follows:

1. Wash the skin with a cleanser and use a face towel to dry the skin gently

2. After an hour of cleaning your skin, bring a tissue and place it on the areas: the forehead, cheeks, chin and nose.

3. Check the effect of the four areas on the tissue according to this effect.

* Oily skin: you will be able to see the traces of fat on the tissue in all the areas it was placed on

*Combination skin: You will be able to see the traces of sebum in some areas

* Normal skin: you will not see any traces of sebum

* Dry skin: You will not see any traces of sebum, but rather peeling effects.

Knowing that sensitive skin is not a single skin type in itself, the skin may be oily / normal / dry / mixed and sensitive at the same time, so we recommend that before trying any mask or cream for the skin try it on a small part of the skin in the hand or at the top of the neck to test if you are suffering If you are allergic to this product or not...

The more fruits the better sexual intercourse*6 fruit will change your sexual life*

 Since it is summer, and we suffer from the searing heat which exhausts us greatly

A disagreement might occur between us and our husbands because of the pressure the heat causes us, so I thought to collect for you fruits that moisturize the body and help the body in the marital relationship

Fruits in general are good for the body and provide us with energy and vitamins that revitalize the body, give us energy and prevent dehydration

But there are certain fruits that provide the body with energy that helps it to carry out sexual relations without fatigue or boredom.

1 - Banana:

Bananas provide the body with the tremendous energy that makes it active throughout the day, and increases sexual desire.

2 - mango:

It is one of the most delicious fruits that all people love and provides us with vitamins and energy, strengthens the skin, works on its freshness, and increases sexual desire as well.

3-Cherry:

Cherry is a seduction tool mainly in its shape and color, so we always see pictures of some actresses eating cherries as a seduction method, and thus cherries have many benefits and protect against anemia and clogging of the arteries.

4- Watermelon:

Did you know that 4 slices of watermelon are equivalent to a Viagra tablet?

Watermelon is an alternative to sexual drugs for men, as it is an alternative to Viagra

5 - Fig

My dear figs are very delicious fruits and play an important role in strengthening the sexual state of women and men together because it purifies the body from toxins and sediments that attach to it and helps it to devote itself to sexual immunity.

6- Strawberries

It is one of the strongest sexual stimulants and contains a high percentage of vitamin C, which replaces collagen in the blood

These collected fruits are summer fruits, so make sure to eat them fresh

Bra is the enemy of health? ... Really !!

 

Damages of the bra to health:

1-Circulatory disorders in the body:

Wearing a bra, especially during sleep, leads to a contraction of the chest muscles, and leads to poor blood flow in the body, and thus nerve diseases.

The emergence of sensitivity and irritation of the skin, especially in the summer.

2-Difficulty sleeping,ninsomnia: 

Wearing a bra during the night leads to difficulty sleeping, especially if it is tight, so doctors advise that it should be removed before going to sleep.

3-Infection with breast fungi: 

Wearing a bra during sleep leads to infection with breast fungi, and the reason is that sleeping in a warm environment leads to the gathering of fungi and microbes on the breast.

4- A blockage in the skin, the reason being the retention of fluids under the skin, and it also leads to a blockage in the lymph nodes. * The possibility of developing cancer, as recent studies indicated that wearing a bra at night leads to cancer, especially if it is tight.

5-Severe shoulder pain.

The possibility of developing tension and headache, especially if the bra is tight.

Impact on the vertebrae of the spine, as it may cause severe pain in the bones.

6-Breast fatigue, especially if the bra is tight, it negatively affects the production of melatonin in the body. 

7-Change in skin color; Because they contain wires and tapes, which directly affect the skin.

8-Breasts appear larger than their normal size.

9-The appearance of zigzags and protrusions in the back.

10-Causing skin infections, especially for women who are overweight.

11-The possibility of developing irritable bowel syndrome.

12-Pressure on the lymph nodes, especially when wearing tight bras for long periods of times.

How to choose a good bra:

Choosing the appropriate bra for the case, for example, a bra for a pregnant woman is different from a breastfeeding one.

- Choosing the appropriate bra for clothes, for example there is a bra that is distinguished by its shape similar to the letter V, while some others are distinguished by its thin shape.

Avoid buying narrow bras, and replace them with wide ones.

Choose a comfortable bra at the chest and on the shoulders.

Don't buy cheap bras.

- Not to wear them for two consecutive days; Because it enlarges and shows badly the breast.

Not to buy bras that cause breast pain.

Buy bras that tighten the breast.

Do hormones really affect our lives and our behavior?

 

There is a question that has always aroused our interest and confirmed by many positions, and we have always wanted to answer it.

Are we really at the mercy of our female hormones? Are all our psychological fluctuations the main cause of it?

What is its importance and its implications?

They certainly have a great influence on our lives, but we remain in control of our behavior, but our lack of knowledge of their importance and how to deal with them makes them a strange thing that we cannot deal with, but it is possible to break this barrier by getting to know them.

Hormones secreted from the glands of all kinds are the regulators of all the processes that the body performs on a regular basis and are responsible for its health and its imbalance causes many diseases, we will discuss these details in the coming articles, but today we will shed light on feminine hormones and they are:

Progesterone

 Estrogen

Testosterone

Those hormones are related to our menstrual cycle, pregnancy, weight, fertility, metabolism, and some of our moods,..... etc

Let us learn together about the importance of each hormone:

Progesterone:

The hormone progesterone is at its highest normal levels in blood during and after ovulation, because it prepares the uterus to receive the fertilized egg and continues to be present in blood if pregnancy occurs and maintains and stabilizes it, if it does not occur, it decreases and the menstrual cycle occurs.

Does it have other importance for the body? Of course, they are as follows:

Helps burn fat and produce energy.

Helps hair germination and growth and affects its health.

Helps the mind focus and calm.

Works on bone growth.

It is used in the means of contraception.

Estrogen:

The hormone estrogen is always present in the blood in different proportions and has many important functions, including:

It leads to the growth of cells in the breast and uterus.

It enhances the presence of collagen layers in the skin, which maintains its youthfulness.

Helps maintain calcium in the bones.

Regulates cholesterol and blood sugar levels.

Affects the psychological and the ability to understand and comprehend.

It is used in the means of contraception.

Testosterone:

It is the main male hormone in men, but it is excreted in low levels that are almost negligible in women

The percentage of female hormones in the blood and their effect on the body varies depending on the age of the woman, as they are at their peak in their twenties and above and continue to rise to the end of the 40's, where the percentage of hormones in the blood decreases and continues to decline after the age of 50, which we call ( Age of menopause).

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How to have a celebrity style wedding reception on a cheap budget :

 Have you generally longed for an intricate wedding gathering, yet have gotten content with a basic 

gathering to set aside cash as well as time? All things considered, you shouldn't abandon your 

fantasies. Your wedding is a unique day and you would prefer not to need to think back wishing you 

had done things any other way. It is to your greatest advantage to make the wedding that will be 

generally critical and glad for you. Notwithstanding far and wide thoughts, having a VIP style wedding 

gathering doesn't need to mean wiping out your ledger. By utilizing some flighty assets you can have 

the wedding gathering to equal those of VIPs, however without the significant expense. 

Get Coordinated 

Before you can really begin putting your superstar style wedding gathering together, you need to get 

yourself coordinated. Consider what you need. At this stage, don't stress over how much things will 

cost. At the point when you get to the shopping stage you will have the option to figure out what is 

plausible or not. The fundamental things you ought to remember for your rundown are wedding 

setting, embellishments, food and drink, placecards, focal points, and music. 

Enroll the Soldiers 

On the off chance that you need to get a good deal on your wedding gathering skip employing an 

expert. These people are ordinarily profoundly gifted in what they do and their charges demonstrate 

it! Your smartest choice is to discover individuals who are eager to assist you with liberating. You 

shouldn't have look farther than your loved ones. Enroll the administrations of the same number of 

individuals as you can. This incorporates youngsters. Youngsters can be particularly useful with 

dreary specialties, so remember them for your wedding gathering plans. Try not to stand by until the 

last moment to request help. Tell individuals route ahead of time that you will require them to assist 

you with your wedding gathering. 

Time to Shop 

With your rundown of wedding gathering thoughts close by, the time has come to begin shopping. 

The setting for your wedding gathering will presumably be the most costly piece of the gathering. 

Modest choices that don't look modest incorporate eateries and church corridors. On the off chance 

that you decide to have your wedding gathering at a café, ensure that you can utilize your own 

flatware, plates, and glasses. You can buy rich forms of these at markdown looks for under $100, 

contingent upon the quantity of visitors you welcome. Streamline food at your wedding gathering by 

having three options from which your visitors can pick when they RSVP to your greeting. Caters 

charge less when you request by the plate. As an additional touch you can put a delectable grouping 

of eternality on each table. For your focal points and enhancements, pastime shops offer the best 

costs. You can discover plan thoughts that you can make you and your soldiers can make for 

practically nothing. Placecards aren't a need, yet on the off chance that you have appointed 

individuals at tables, placecards will assist individuals with finding their table. You can make your own 

wedding gathering placecards by buying a cheap welcome card programming program and rich 

paper. You will require an inkjet printer to print the cards. Except if you know somebody who will 

offer you a modest cost for wedding gathering music, avoid the DJ and the live band. Making a 

couple of Albums of different mainstream love tunes is a more affordable decision. 

A wedding supper with the wedding party (lady, groom, bridesmaids, groomsmen, guardians) not 

long before the wedding function is conventional. It is a smart thought to either welcome your 

wedding gathering partners to this supper or to a different fun occasion. At this occasion you should 

show your gratefulness for aiding make your wedding gathering the best ever!

Make a home professional serum and say goodbye to dry skin

 

As is well known to all, any moisturizing substance contains water.

Today we will prepare a serum oil, we will learn how to use natural oils in serums.

Unlike a water-based serum that moisturizes the face, the serum made from oils helps create a barrier on the surface of the face (skin), traps moisture and prevents the natural water in our skin from evaporating.

This serum does not moisturize the skin but keeps it from drying out.

We often hear that natural oils are beneficial for the skin, such as olive oil, sweet almond oil, argan oil, ... and many other oils, but we do not prefer to use these oils because these oils leave an oily layer on the skin that is difficult for the skin to absorb.

The chemical particles that make up the oil have a large size, which prevents the skin from absorbing it, the smaller the oil molecules, the faster their absorption. So what is the solution so that we can benefit from the oils and absorb them by the skin?

In this article, I will teach you how to convert any natural oil into a professional serum similar to the serums on the market.

The secret is found in one component, which is Coco-Caprylite, it is used in a large amount in the serums that are sold in the market it characterized by extremely rapid penetration into the skin. It is a natural silicone, where many brands use synthetic silicone because its cost is cheaper, but Coco Caprylite is 100 percent natural extracted from coconut oil.

 why do we use it here?:Just to help the skin absorb the beneficial oils for the skin and even give a smooth texture to the skin.

Ingredients of the serum that we will be preparing today:

50% coco-caprylite=4g

31% jojoba oil=2.5g

15% argan oil=1.25g

4% vitamin E=0.25g

You can add any oils you like to use.

We mix all the ingredients in a special serum bottle, yes, only this and you will get a high quality serum. You can replace the oils as you like.

Note: Vitamin E helps the serum to maintain its quality for a long time, but if it is not available to you, you can not use it